How is it that ppl can act so foul, then wonder why ppl treat them that way?

I'm taking crap for not going to a friends birthday party. Yet, for the last several years...this person has never been present at my birthday. Now I understand ppl cannot always make it to EVERY occasion. But you never come to anything for me, and I should still show up to every little occasion you have? Um....not likely.

I just don't get why now I'm the bad person, when all I did was not go since a) I did not WANT to go and b)I was broke anyway.

Sorry but going out to the bars and taking the drunk bus and going from bar to bar gets expensive.